The funny thing is what is appealing to us often isn’t good for us. Like most women would rather have a cocky bad boy, than a stable dependable guy. I always want the unattainable guy; I almost never like guys who like me back. Here’s something some of you might have a hard time grasping; I would never date somebody in a wheelchair. I got enough difficulties dealing with my own disability, I don’t want to deal with somebody else’s.